Flower Show

Posted by Rajasundharam at February 17, 2015

Recently I went to a flower show. Actually, I went with lots of imagination about the flowers. A few years back I read one article about the Bangalore flower show which was very interesting. I am very eager to see. I took one camera with a full charge and read some photo sessions. When I reached the park it was a huge crowd. There itself I lost my interest in taking pictures but still, I want to see the flowers at least and again upset it’s not looking like a natural flower its look like a decorated one. Actually, I thought to show the flower snaps to my sisters, who are very interested in flowers. Actually, my mom sister and grandma are interested in gardening. They used to maintain a garden full of flower plant they use to search for particular flowers. Like that they have collected most of their favourite flowers, it’s like their hobby they won’t buy flowers for pooja and also for daily use. I have seen many times when those plants started budding flowers they will be very happy and also when they find flowers in the bud that’s all they will feel like flying my sister use to shout also she use to say to everyone for the whole day. Even, I remembered in my childhood I also involve in these activities also searched for sunflowers and all.

I was so upset and sitting in the park. at that time I found a few children’s selling balloons. Actually, the park is filled with people especially more children’s and this balloon-selling people are like a group youngsters are making the balloons and few children’s are selling those balloons it’s like a game for those children’s they use to take 10 to 15 balloons into the crowd and they will play in front of the public children’s so those children started asking balloons to their parents. When I saw this I started following few children’s they were very peculiar in front of the public children’s even though we have a restriction on child labour these people are doing this kind of work in the holidays. when I stopped a guy and asked about his education he said he was studying 4^th std I was quite happy that these people will be a good businessman in future and also taken a few peculiar snaps.         

BEAUTY OF DARKNESS

Posted by Rajasundharam at February 15, 2015

Darkness is always there in every once life. we can say sleep is one kind of darkness. We are spending half of our life sleeping. In my point darkness means peace. A few days back I got a chance to spend few minutes in a dark area I have spent 45 minutes there I learnt few things so I thought to share which came to my mind in that 45 minutes.  It was farmland were no lights. I found a few illusions; normally people use to feel the same when they are in the darkness. No lights, no sound. I never felt this situation before, started hearing the sound of darkness it was the best and peaceful music ever heard. In that minute I felt like a human who doesn’t want anything other than that situation.

Heard many times the greatest writers, philosophers and creators use to do their work in the dark night but that is the moment I realized how they became great. This darkness created many great creators and it was behind many inventions.  

Darkness brought my fear out. In a hard time just sit in a dark and say what makes u hard share your hard times it may not solve your hard time but surely you will feel better so we can treat darkness as our friend who always is there with us in the entire situation. Basically, men won’t cry in front of people but here men can cry even louder it will hear you. Before facing any hard problem just feel the darkness it will show you away

When I talk about the darkness I remembered a few horror stories which are said by my grandma in my childhood. In that story, she specified all the bad power will come out only in the darkness and also it will touchier the human so only people are sleeping in the night this is how she makes me sleep. She uses to say many stories like that but in all the story darkness is a kind of villain but here what I have experienced the darkness as a hero.  

21 DAYS MANTRA

Posted by Rajasundharam at February 14, 2015

Basically” MANTRA” means a kind of holy word. people basically use mantras for their prayers or it’s a kind of magical word if u read any fantasy books you may find this. I am not going to tell u any such words; I don’t want to fool anyone as people are doing. Recently I came across a term 21 days mantra to change your habit but I didn’t wait there, because those people are purposely created these terms to cheat people. They are very smart and intelligent if u stand in front of them for few minutes then u will think why not to give a try. I keep telling my friends not to trust such people.

Actually speaking every religion having these kinds of habits. for example: in Hindu, people use to go for Sabarimala which include 41 days of fasting those people use to put a pause for the bad habits.

In case Muslims Ramazan is the period where they use to follow few regulations, in the same way for Christians in the time of Easter they also follow the same kind of fasting. Likewise, every religion has its own mantras but my question is what those people are doing after the fasting?

Did they really follow the same? If the answer is NO, then can I say that as 41 days of punishment?  And also I don’t want to touch any spiritual things here “beliefs are created or exist to believe” so, definitely I don’t want to touch it.

I just want to take it another way. Why people are addicted to certain habits?

I have two scenarios here,

 Scenario 1:

A few years back I had a friend personally he is a very good person. he use to share everything with me. He had a smoking and drinking habit. he won’t use water if he feels thirsty instead he use to take hot drinks. One day when we are talking about something he said I am going to quit smoking and drinking, I was happy and my mind said don’t ask the reason but my heart says just ask why? Basically, I am one of the people who use to follow their heart and also I just want to know how he can stop everything from that second.

I asked him how you are thinking that you can control this habit he simply smiled at me and left.

 I thought it’s really a difficult task and decided to help him.

Next day he came to me. Usually, he use to give centre fresh but that particular day he said no centre fresh hereafter. Since I gave a big full stop for smoking. Again I just want to ask the same question but I just controlled myself. Days passed by, after a few days again I met him he gave me a centre fresh I thought again he started but I didn’t ask him. He simply started hey! This is not the one I bought; the shop keeper gave this as change.

 I said if it true I am really happy and asked how you stopped everything

This is what he replied in my young age I started this habit personally but every time got failed to stop it. I hated myself, I personally started this habit myself if I don’t want means I have to stop know?

Then I started controlling myself for one month till 20 days it was very difficult to accept because whenever I see a guy who is smoking on the roadside I felt like losing my hope it’s the difficult part of my life, I can say. After 30 days that became my habit now, I am completely away from smoking.

Hereafter I can live without drinks and smoke, it gave me the confidence to my life, it added colours to my life.

Then he remained me that I have discussed a scenario a few days back as a causal talk then I got back the incident.

Scenario 2:

When I was in my 10^th standard my class master wants everyone to study in the early morning and to prove that we need to get a sign from parents. I felt very difficult to wake up in the early morning but I have to do and I won’t read in the evening or in the other time because always use to play cricket or use to be with friends. Early morning is the only time I find myself alone so I can concentrate a little bit. few days I tried hard then later it became a habit I don’t know how many days it took to make it as a habit, later in my secondary school, I followed the same. it helped in my college also even now I use to get a mind alarm early morning every day if I want to wake early my mind alarm is enough actually.

If u wants to start good things as your hobbit then do that continuously till it became your habit. If you want to stop something just forget that particular for few days definitely your mind will forget and you will become a new person. you yourself can find the difference I just thought to share my experience and I did it here


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